Relational clarity

The relational Operating System for human-centered fundraising.

See the people. Choose the next faithful move.

CRMs store information. Kindred creates relational clarity.

Are you carrying every relationship, possibility, and promise in your head? C.A.R.E.™ asks you to make four honest reads: Capacity, Attributes, Relationship, and Engagement. They help you decide where to begin.

Kindred carries the remembering, so you can be fully present with the person.

Not a donation processor Works before and alongside your CRM

Before Kindred was software, fundraisers using C.A.R.E.™ raised more than $75 million.

A Monday morning · composite example

Rachel has 163 names and no idea where to start.

A fundraiser's scattered notes gathering into a clear path toward the people in her care.

Before

Her people are scattered across a spreadsheet, her phone, two notebooks, and her own memory. She needs to raise another $1,400 a month, and every name feels equally urgent. The week begins with a knot in her stomach and no trustworthy way to decide what comes first.

After Kindred

She makes a few honest observations and begins to see the people and the path forward:

  • Five people ready for a thoughtful personal conversation.
  • Twelve who may welcome a personalized invitation and follow-through.
  • Two donors whose generosity deserves a meaningful thank-you.
  • Everything else given a place to return when it matters.
She begins with the next faithful move.

Four relational lenses. Five honest inputs.

C.A.R.E.™ turns a scattered list into a strategy you can understand.

C.A.R.E.™ looks at Capacity, Attributes, Relationship, and Engagement. Capacity has two inputs: Monthly High Hope and Annual High Hope. The other three lenses have one input each.

These are honest, revisable observations, not verdicts on people. The sort helps you choose an invitation strategy. Your judgment guides the next move.

C

Capacity

Roughly, what might this person be able to give if they chose to? A rough read, never a judgment.

A

Attributes

Do they share your heart for the mission? Belief and alignment matter more than any number.

R

Relationship

How close are you, really? A dear friend and a distant contact deserve different first steps.

E

Engagement

Are they leaning in lately, opening notes, replying, showing up? Or have things gone quiet?

Four relational lenses surrounding a person and opening into a clear path forward.
Explore the heart of CARE
The sort is the strategy

We don't set strategy on our feelings. We sort the list.

Score each person once for capacity, attributes, relationship, and engagement, then watch the list reorder itself. The order is the plan. No agonizing. No favorites. Just clarity you can act on.

The relief of a spreadsheet that finally thinks the way you do, with the warmth of remembering these are friends, not line items.

my_partners.list ○ unsorted

Demonstration with seven sample relationships.

C.A.R.E.™ = Capacity · Attributes · Relationship · Engagement
Sorting is step one

Then the list hands you a plan.

Every person lands in one of three strategies, each with a next move you can act on. Sort the list above to see where everyone goes.

S1 ··

Personal Invitation

Top third of the list

Your closest, highest-hope friends. A warm, face-to-face invitation.

Coffee Lunch Home visit Zoom
S2 ··

Personalized Invitation with Follow-Through

Middle third of the list

A personal written invitation, backed by a verbal follow-up.

Send letter Share the case Follow-up call
S3 ··

Shared Experience and Invitation

Bottom third of the list

Warmth and mission exposure through a broad, gracious invitation.

Dessert night Open house Vision night

How it works

From a list of names to a weekly plan.

Four steps keep the work visible without turning relationships into transactions.

Relationship cards moving through reflection and invitation toward one clear weekly next step.
See How It Works

Before the first gift

The Approach helps you invite wisely.

Begin with a person, not a pipeline. Make a thoughtful invitation, receive a real response, and remain faithful to the relationship.

Two people moving through listening and invitation toward a free and respected response.
Explore The Approach

After the first gift

The Path helps you care faithfully.

A first gift is not the finish line. The Path reflects the relationship that truly exists.

A flowing relationship path through welcome, shared work, mutual support, and enduring friendship.
Explore The Path

For fundraisers, and the teams behind them.

Share the stewardship without turning people into a pipeline.

Relational fundraising should not depend on one person remembering everything. Kindred gives teams enough shared clarity to keep promises, coordinate meaningful work, and learn together, without making private reflection public or turning activity into surveillance.

A team sharing stewardship around one table while preserving human connection and care.
Explore Kindred for your team

One Kindred methodology. Two ways of speaking.

Choose the language that fits your mission.

Christian and Community editions offer the same complete relational fundraising practice, capability, price, and access.

Two equal expressions flowing from and returning to the same relational center.
Explore the Christian and Community editions

A faithful place to begin.

Begin with the relationships already in your C.A.R.E.™

You do not need a perfect database, a finished campaign, or a complete fundraising plan. Bring the names, questions, and promises you are carrying now. Kindred will help you find a faithful place to begin.

Begin with Kindred Explore Kindred for your team The Team conversation determines Team or Growth fit, implementation requirements, and what Kindred should and should not carry alongside the CRM.